These Are the Signs That a Woman Is Secretly Attracted to You

So you are nervous about asking a girl out because you are not sure whether she is secretly attracted to you or not? Well, here is a list of the signs that should tell you whether she is secretly attracted to you.

 

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   She Involves You in Her Activities

When a woman is interested in you, she will make it her business to ensure that she spends time with you and also be sure that your paths cross from time to time.

 

2. She Helps You Out Without Asking for Anything in Return

Women who like someone will go out of their way to help them even without expecting anything in return especially when they do not know how the person will repay them. If the girl does not expect anything from you then there’s something going on between the two of you.

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3. She Avoids Other Men

A woman who is interested in a guy will try to avoid other men who might be a threat to their relationship. If this girl does not want you to talk with other guys then there’s something going on between the two of you.

 

4. She Makes Inquiries about You

A woman who likes someone will make it her business to inquire about the things she wants to know concerning that person. This is because she wants to find out as much as she can before making any approach towards him or her. If she wanted to meet you, this would mean that she is interested in knowing more about you which means something could happen between the two of you soon enough.

 

5. She Responds Well Whenever You Talk to Her

One of the major signs that a woman is interested in you is when she responds well whenever you talk to her. If she seems very responsive and happy to talk with you then there’s something going on between the two of you.

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6. She Tries to Get Close to You

When a woman tries to get close to a man, it means that she has already gotten attracted to him which makes this a good sign that something might happen soon enough. The best way for a guy to know whether a girl wants them or not is by having that one on one conversation where they can tell if they are really into each other or not.

 

7. She Stares at You She Thinks That No One is Watching

A woman who is interested in a man will try her best to watch him without being caught. This is because she does not want any one of their friends or even family members to know about their relationship since it might complicate things which could later lead to problems between them.

 

8. She Will Try Her Best to Get Close to You

When a woman tries her level best to get close to you, that means that she has already gotten attracted to you and would do everything possible just for the two of you to be together. If this girl tries her level best just so she can talk with you then there’s something going on between the two of you.

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9. She Responds When You Touch Her Body Part

This is another sign to look out for when a woman gets attracted to a man. If she responds to you whenever you touch her then that means that she has already developed a feeling of closeness which could later turn into something else if given the chance.

 

10. She Tells You Her Problems without Hesitation

When a woman opens up to someone, it does not always mean that they have fallen in love with them since sometimes they just want to get things off their chest and this could either be good or bad depending on one’s perspective. However, this means that there is at least some kind of connection between the two of you since women who keep things to themselves do not normally open up so easily. Now you should know whether she likes you or not.

 

11. She Teases You but Not in a Harmful Way

One sign that can indicate your girlfriend is attracted towards you is when she teases you all the time but only in a way where there’s no harm done at all to either of you. If she tries teasing you but does it playfully, then that means that something is going on between the two of you and this could even turn into a romance if given the chance.

 

12. She Hugs You from Behind When Nobody Is Looking

A woman who is interested in someone will do things that people might not see as being romantic such as hugging them from behind when nobody else is just so they can have some time to be alone together. If she does this, then there’s something going on between the two of you so don’t mess it up since she might not wait for too long before moving on to someone else.

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13. She Stays Positive During Your Conversation

When a woman is interested in someone, she will always try her best to stay positive whenever they are having a conversation with that person even if it means acting like everything is alright when deep down inside she is feeling uneasy or unhappy about something. This happens because women who are attracted towards another person would look at things positively which could later turn into love once feelings start developing between them.

 

14. She Listens to You Intently Whenever You Talk

If your girlfriend listens to everything you have to say as if her life depends on it, then that means that she is attracted to you and would do just about anything to have a chance with you. This happens because women who are interested in a man start listening intently whenever they speak so they can keep the person talking which could later turn into something more intimate between them.

 

15. She Blushes Whenever You Touch Her

A woman who gets attracted to someone will start blushing whenever they touch them even if it is only slightly or for a short period of time. If your girlfriend starts blushing whenever you touch her ever so slightly, then there’s something going on between the two of you and this might lead to romance if given the chance.

 

16. Look at her eye contact

If a girl looks at you in the eyes when she talks, it may be because she feels some attraction towards you. If she continues to look into your eyes even when it’s not her turn to speak or there’s something else going on in the room, then that’s a good sign that she is enjoying speaking with you and will possibly feel attracted to you later on.

 

17. Look at her body language

Girls open themselves up to more easily through their body language compared to guys who tend to keep their cards close to their chest most of the time. Whether they are standing or sitting down, a woman is comfortable around you if her arms and legs are facing your direction rather than across from you. She might also play with her hair or touch your arm while talking to you.

 

18. Look at how she dresses

Some women are reserved about showing their attraction towards a guy until they find out more about him and get to know what he’s like as a person. But some women wear very revealing clothes because they want attention from both genders. So if you have been receiving more female attention than usual, then it could be that one of the ladies likes you!

 

19. Watch for signs of flirting

Does she constantly tease you? Does she compliment your appearance? Pay close attention to these actions since some girls flirt with everyone so it might not mean anything in particular even if she does your looks. However, if she starts to tease you more frequently around other people, playfully hits your arm when she’s trying to make a point, or compliments your looks when there are no ulterior motives involved, then it is likely that she finds you attractive.

 

20. Consider how much time has passed

If you have only known the girl for a few hours and she’s already making excuses to touch you in some way (e.g., placing her hand on your knee), then this might be an indicator of attraction towards you. It takes most girls longer than just a few hours before they feel comfortable enough with someone else to express their feelings physically so if it happens too quickly without any warning signs beforehand, the girl might have feelings for you!

 

21. Look at what she talks about

If she brings up topics related to you and then proceeds to ask questions on those specific topics (e.g., your hobbies), then it’s likely that she wants to know more about you—and therefore will feel attracted later on! You can also try reverse psychology by purposefully bringing up topics that you know she will disagree with just to see her reaction. Then you’ll be able to tell how passionate she is about what she believes in and whether this passion could turn into feelings towards you later on.

22. Notice when things get awkward

If the conversation starts to feel more forced than usual (e.g., both of you are fidgeting or constantly looking away), then it’s likely that there is some underlying tension between the two of you that has yet to be addressed. If only one person is feeling uncomfortable, it might mean that they are far less confident than their counterpart—so if everything seems fine on your end but not hers, then maybe she’s interested in dating!

23. She keeps checking you out

As much as women claim to “never check out other guys,” this is something they do all the time, whether they will admit it or not. Women are just less likely to get caught doing it. Pay attention to the way a woman looks at you when she thinks no one else is paying attention. If her eyes keep wandering towards you and then quickly darting away, she’s probably checking you out. Women also tend to look at their friends when checking someone out which usually leaves them with an innocent, albeit unconvincing, glance in your direction when you catch them.

 

24. She returns your flirtatious banter with sexual innuendo of her own

If a woman is flirting with you and it’s not “brazen”, then there’s a difference between flirting and sexual interest. Flirtatious banter usually consists of lighthearted, playful quips that could be misconstrued as joking. Sexual innuendo (the kind where she says things like, “I’d love to get my hands on you” or “I think I want to ravish you”) is reserved for when she’s interested in seeing your response will be. If her comments are making you feel uncomfortable because they’re so overt, there’s zero doubt about whether she wants to sleep with you or not.

 

25. She likes to hang around you

Another sign of secret attraction is if a woman wants to be around you. She might invite herself along for harmless outings like lunch or coffee, just so she can spend more time with you. It’s not that you’re inviting her along, but rather that she simply wants to be seen in your company. Try an experiment sometime where every time you’re out together, whether it’s at work or school, turn to the woman who likes you and say, “I’m sorry if this is weird for you—I know we don’t know each other well.” Nine times out of ten she’ll deny it and list reasons why it isn’t weird at all which usually includes the fact that she enjoys spending time with you.

 

26. She always initiates conversations with you

If a woman is secretly attracted to you, she’s going to want to talk with you more often than not. All good things come in time and eventually, women will stop initiating all conversations because they’ll have a decent idea of how much interest you have in them. If she always tries to strike up a conversation with you when you’re nearby, it means she likes what she sees and wants more of it. In other words, keep doing what you’re doing. It’s working.

 

27. She seeks out your opinion on life matters

Women who are interested in getting to know someone better usually turn the discussion towards subjects that aren’t too personal but still give the two people an opportunity to get to know each other better. When a woman takes this approach, it means she’s interested in your thoughts on life matters. She doesn’t need to know how you feel about politics or global warming because the only thing these conversations are good for is killing time. If she’s asking you what you think of her friends or who was right in an argument between her and her sister, it comes across as a genuine attempt at getting to know you better.

 

28. She is interested to know everything about you

Women are huge gossipers. When it comes to other people’s dramas, they can’t seem to get enough of it. It’s not because women love drama—they generally hate it—but rather that women love the idea of other people being wrapped up in drama because it gives them something interesting to talk about during coffee breaks at work or while grabbing lunch with their friends. When a woman is genuinely interested in what you have to say, she’ll ask you lots of questions that are designed around your interests and hobbies. If she feels out of the loop when talking with her friends, she might bring up how much she likes spending time with you just so they think there’s more going on between you two than there is.

 

29. She starts dropping hints about going out with you

If a woman truly likes you, she’s going to want the world to know. If she’s dropping hints about wanting to go out with you, it means she wants everyone else around her—her family or friends—to know that there might be something between the two of you. It takes courage for her to do this because what if things don’t turn out in her favor? She knows that when people find out you’re dating someone new, the questions are always the same: “How did you meet?” and “What does he do for a living?” The last thing she wants is for these questions to come up at every gathering because then people would assume there was something between her and your handsome self. This is why many women will start dropping hints about going out with you if they truly like you. They want everyone to know that there might be a chance for the two of you.

 

30. She likes to mimic you

The first sign of attraction is often confusion. You may not understand what’s happening or why, but you will feel confused about the girl’s attention toward you. It can be confusing because it doesn’t match her outward behavior.   Girls aren’t usually subtle when they want something – she might be giving off mixed signals with how reserved and aloof she acts around you most of the time, but then starts to mimic your body language.

 

31. She tries too hard to impress you

When a woman likes a man, trying to impress him isn’t exactly at the top of her priority list – unless she knows that he likes her too!  Women are intuitive creatures, so if she wants you to notice her it is almost always because she likes you.

 

32. She tries to have a ‘special friendship with you

Most people are reciprocal when it comes to friendship – but this is not the case with attraction. When a girl likes you, she will try to find any excuse to stay close to you and be in your presence as much as possible, even if it means befriending another one of your buddies.

 

33. She gets super touchy-feely with you!

A woman’s body language can tell you everything that her mouth won’t – until she knows for certain that she can trust you! As soon as she starts liking someone new, her guard goes up and she becomes increasingly distant emotionally before physically … except around YOU! Anytime a girl likes a guy, she’s going to start acting extra touchy-feely with them! It doesn’t matter if they’re friends or not.

 

34. She opens up with you about her life and tells you her secrets

They say that for a woman to truly trust someone, she has to open up to them. This happens after she’s already attracted to you because when women are interested they’re much more guarded about who they share their feelings with! If a girl starts opening up to you then it means that you’ve reached the next step – mutual attraction…

 

35. She gives off “that look”

She might not realize it, but this girl starts giving you ‘that look’ of hers – especially when no one is looking or when she thinks you aren’t looking either!  Women employ what I like to refer to as “the look of love” fairly early on in an interaction with someone they like. They just get this certain look in their eye that they no longer have when talking to people they just think are okay looking.

 

36. She smiles at you ALL the time

No one is naturally this happy all the time – but she is! If she’s suddenly super nice and sunny with you, even though she was a complete bitch to other guys beforehand, it means that she has to be really into you because only a girl who likes a guy would become so much more agreeable and nicer all of a sudden. This isn’t how females normally act around men!

 

37. She brings YOU gifts

Women don’t usually bring men gifts as tokens of affection because if their man has been good enough to them, then they’ve already got everything that he could want!  A woman who brings a guy gifts is trying to make them like her more than any of the other girls he knows. It’s one of the first signs that she likes him, and it happens very fast if they’re into him at all.

 

38. She tries to see you outside of school/work

When a girl likes someone, she will always find ways to bump into them whenever possible or try to hang out with their friends or family members outside of where THEY normally hang out – especially if it’s something THEIR family does on the weekends! If you notice this happening more than usual then there’s probably something more going on…