I’ll tell you what I know about this. It is not easy to make a girl fall in love with you. You have to be very smooth and sensitive, but also confident enough that she respects your masculinity. And don’t forget, if she doesn’t respect your masculinity, it will be hard for her to fall in love with you. So first of all, let me say that the only way to get a girl to like you is by being interested in her interests and talking about them often. But more importantly than anything else, if you want a girl to fall in love with you then it starts with being friends first!
1. Avoid being too sexual
The first step for you is to try and avoid being too sexual.
You have to show her that you are a good friend, so don’t be so harsh by being sexual with your words all the time. When you have sex on the brain, it makes it hard for anyone else to fall in love with you because everyone can tell. You need to keep your mind open and think about more than just ‘hooking up’! Although hooking up is fun, if she wants something serious she will eventually leave you if all you want is sex. So stay away from saying things like “I wanna ****** ** !!!” It sounds kind of stupid now saying it out loud, but I know tons of guys who could really use this for their girl right now.
“I love you,” is a three letter phrase that can make even the most broody of men turn into helpless children. It’s such an amazing feeling to hear those words coming from someone so special to you, and it only intensifies when they say them back . Everyone wants to hear I love you in a relationship because it gives one a sense of security and encouragement. Unfortunately, saying “I love you,” takes something many men lack: courage . Instead , “I love you,” comes in a form much more easily received by everyone involved: actions . Whether or not your girlfriend or boyfriend has just said it out loud for the first time , here are some ways to let your loved ones know just how much you truly love them.
1. Look into their eyes and hold the gaze for as long as possible
If it’s a first time ILY, then there is no better way to let someone know how you feel than through your eyes . It can be hard to keep eye contact sometimes , but even if you make it only a few seconds, that means more than enough to your other half (:
2. Call or text them wanting to talk to them every single day
Everyone wants someone who loves spending time with them and cherishes their presence, so take advantage of those moments when they’re available ! The little things like sending good morning texts and reaching out before bed go such a long way (:
3. If they are busy, call or text them asking how their day is going
Everyone deserves to know that someone else out there cares about how their day is going. If you feel like sharing your day with them, go for it!
4. Go on dates
Whether you’re at the movies, grabbing dinner, walking around a park, or even just chilling at home watching Netflix , it’ll always be an amazing time if you’re together . You don’t have to spend all of your money trying to impress each other either—a simple stroll through the park can say so much more than any restaurant ever could (:
5. Give compliments!
Saying I love your laugh/smile/eyes makes anyone feel better instantly. Trust me, I know (:
6. Get them little presents and leave them in places they’ll discover!!!
It can be something as simple as a post-it note on their desk with the words “I love you,” or a picture of when y’all first met taped to the TV. They may seem like nothing, but trust me when I say that these little things add up over time!!!
Just do it. Cuddling is my favorite thing in the world, and anyone who loves cuddling would agree with me . Plus, cuddling forms such an intimate and comfortable bond between two people and is one of the most loving actions you can ever take (:
8. Show your feelings in public
Holding hands with someone who means a lot to you not only shows the world that they’re your soulmate , but it also displays how comfortable and secure you feel around them. It’s such a loving gesture!!!
9. Send handwritten letters
If you don’t think typing up messages on your phone is romantic enough, then send them out in snail mail! You can pick up cute stationary for really cheap at places like Target or Walmart , and even include little things like stickers if you want (:
10. Fight fair and never stop trying
No one’s perfect and no relationship is perfect either . Saying I love you “forces” people to be their best selves because they don’t want to risk losing the most important person to them.
11. And maybe the most important thing of all
Show up when it counts. If you truly love someone, then there’s no excuse to not be there when they need you . No matter what happens in life , never let go of one another (:
I could say I love you in different languages if that’s your thing, or put my writing abilities to use and write an entire book just for you, but what matters more than anything is that words are empty if they’re not backed up by actions ! It takes much courage to tell someone how we feel about them because feelings can’t always be measured . However, actions in a relationship speak so much louder than words ever could ; so next time you want to show someone how you love them, try doing things that are more than words.
1. Don’t ignore their texts!!!
If someone is taking the time out of their day to text you, then they probably really do care about what’s going on in your life . So don’t just wait for an opportunity to call or text them ! Being so busy all the time isn’t an excuse either because every single one of us has 24 hours in a day, so why not spend at least some of those with someone who makes you happy?
2. And also call when you say you will
A lot of relationships go sour because there’s no communication between two people . When we can’t communicate what we’re feeling , it leads to sadness and confusion which ultimately leads to the deterioration of a relationship.
3. Be honest
We’ve all heard this one before, but it’s so important. If you love someone, then tell them! There is nothing more beautiful than being told that you’re loved , and if someone tells me they love me I feel like the luckiest girl in the world !!! Don’t just assume your partner knows how you feel because it leaves room for doubt, and no one likes uncertainty (:
4. Don’t take each other for granted
You never know when something bad can happen or what could make someone up and leave you ; so always appreciate each other through life’s ups and downs . Don’t wait until someday down the line to say “I love you” or do something nice for them because that day might never come ; so just take advantage of every single moment you have together because life is unpredictable , and you could lose somebody at any given moment.
5. Don’t lie
As adolescents, many of us are forced to lie about the things we do or who we hang out with , but why should you have to hide anything from your significant other ? They wouldn’t judge you if they really loved you so tell them everything! The more comfortable two people are around each other, the better the relationship will be.
6. Text your partner good morning and night
I used to be guilty of this as well !!! But now I wake up and immediately text my boyfriend (; It’s such a small gesture , but it shows that you care and think about the other person . If they mean a lot to you, make sure they know it (:
7. Say please and thank you
Being well mannered is such an important trait for any human being, but especially in a relationship! When we feel respected by our significant others , we feel so much happier ! So say please and thank you even if your partner isn’t saying it back because there’s always room to be kinder and more grateful.
8. Bring them flowers just because
This one speaks for itself! Small gestures like this show someone how much you love them . It doesn’t take too much effort or money, but flowers have the ability to brighten up someone’s day!!!
9. Offer to pay for dinner or movies
I think this one is pretty self explanatory as well ; just offer to pay and don’t be bummed if they reject you (:
10 . If they’re cold, give them your jacket!!!
Or just hold their hand when it’s cold outside : This is something that means a lot to me personally!! If someone loves you, then they’ll do anything in their power to make sure you stay warm and safe ! And again with the holding hands , such a small gesture, but it makes such an impact! Sometimes we take our significant others for granted; so next time you go out with them, remember these small things and try to make them feel special!!!
Another thing you can do to make a girl fall in love with you is: tell her she’s beautiful and not hot (that’s an instant no) and if she says something about you like your shirt or whatever say “i know it looks good on me”.
1. Call them more than once or twice a day
It can be hard to always stay in touch because we’re all so busy, but sometimes making the effort even when life gets crazy is worth it! There’s nothing worse than waiting for someone to call you back , especially if that person means the world to you !!! So try to show them how much they mean to you by calling every couple of hours (;
2. And never assume what they’re saying
If your girlfriend mentions something about her friend’s new boyfriend, don’t assume she wants to break up with you !!! I know guys think this is obvious, but it really isn’t . Women are emotional creatures , so just go out of your way to be kind and respectful !!! Because life is too short to spend with someone who doesn’t appreciate or love you for who you are , and no one deserves to be disrespected!!
3. Go out of your way to do something nice for her
This might not sound as important as the other things on this list, but I think it’s a great thing to do even though making yourself happy is more important !!! Sometimes doing things for others gives us the feeling of being needed by someone, which can make us feel so much happier! So find that extra time in your day to bake a cake or buy flowers just because! You’ll usually be rewarded with a smile on their face and then they’ll want to do something nice back ♥
4. Be humble
There’s nothing wrong with bragging every once in a while, but if this is something your partner knows about you , then it can make them feel insecure . Ask yourself why you’re boasting? Are you just doing it for the attention ? If so, keep these things between friends because there are no benefits when boasting around your significant other! So just try to be modest and always compliment others on their accomplishments because it just shows that you’re big hearted and that their accomplishments are important to you!
5. Keep your plans
Sometimes, we tend to cancel dates because of work or other things , but if this is something they know about you, then don’t let them down!!! The last thing anyone wants is the feeling of not being wanted !!! So do whatever you can to keep your dates so they can feel special (:
6. Always support them no matter what
This one shouldn’t need much explaining; supporting our significant others through anything will make them feel like they mean the world to us ! Sometimes when we face hardships , it’s easy for us to give up or doubt ourselves . But having someone who believes in everything we do can make us feel like we’re not alone in the world !!! So believe in everything they do and never let them doubt themselves (:
7. Remember little details about your partner
This is a pretty simple concept but it’s really important!!! Nobody likes feeling forgotten or unimportant , so that means always remember their favorite flower, color, food etc. It will make your date a lot more interesting and it will definitely bring a smile to their face !!! Trust me, details are important (;