When I was in high school I always thought that all the important things in life (health, money, happiness and dating) can be learned from our elders. They would guide us so things are as easy as possible for us and we won’t have to go through a lot of heartache to learn about things in life.
That was a very naive view of reality on my part. Because as I grew up, I realized that:
- Everyone that is trying to teach you something are either trying to sell you something, or they are your parents. Yes, that includes your friends. They would either have an agenda to get something out of you. Or if you are extremely lucky to have friends that are genuinely looking out for your best interests, then you better hold on to them for your entire life.
- Most people that have the time to teach you are not the best at what they are teaching.
Think about it. You parents are the only ones that have your best interests at heart. They truly love you and want you to succeed.
But you cannot go to them and ask how you can date 10 girls are the same time. Or how you can hookup with as many girls as possible. That’s not something you talk to your parents about.
So what do you do?
You start Googling things and see what you can learn online. Back in 2010, you would go to forums and try to compile all the scattered information there and make sense of it.
But then came the avalanche of all the so-called “dating gurus” that repackaged all that content from those forums and sold you the same thing for $197.
I have seen some really smart dating gurus run an online marketing funnel that would get a bunch of people in and then they would sell them on their high-ticket in-person “live immersion” training program. They would sell these for $5000-10,000 per person for a 3-day or a 7-day training program.
Here’s the worst part – most people that spend that much money, end up not getting the life-changing results that they were expecting.
How do I know that?
Well, just type in “dating product name + review” on YouTube and see what other people are saying about it. Most of them are negative reviews.
And it makes sense because if you are someone who wants to hookup with as many hot girls as possible, and you pay someone 10 grand, you expect them to teach you some groundbreaking stuff about online dating, cold approaches, night game, etc.
But if you go in there and find out that they spend the first 3 days teaching you about posture, breathing techniques, meditation and whatnot, you will quickly realize that the whole thing was BS.
So Why Can You Not Find Dating Coaches That Cut Through the BS And Teach You What You Want?
Well, most of them are either already booked or do not focus on this as their main source of income.
What do I mean by that?
Most of them think that teaching other guys about dating is just a side project. And they might be making a boatload of money doing something other than that.
Don’t forget, most guys are never able to get their dating lives sorted their entire lives. And the ones that do are very smart. And smart people are never broke.
The other dating coaches that do this full-time are already booked because they don’t need to run online marketing funnels to fill up their coaching slots or get people in their training programs. Most of it is done through word-of-mouth.
I know this sounds boring af but that’s the truth. Marketing is the reason why you never see those top of the line coaches out there.
So What Can I Do About It?
- You can read the dating product reviews on this website before buying any product out there. I’ll tell you why you should trust the reviews I write over anyone else in a minute.
- You can make sure that you are digging deep into the dating industry and searching for coaches that provide the most amount of proof that builds your trust to spend money with them.
- Or you can just forget about dating for a while and make a lot of money. Then come back and spend a LOT of money trying to figure out who the real deal is.
With the 3rd option, there is still no guarantee that you will find someone genuine and with integrity.
Why You Should Trust My Reviews?
I’m in the same boat as you. I’ve spent upwards of $7,000 on dating products so far trying to learn about how I can improve my dating profiles on Tinder, Bumble, OkCupid, etc. And also learning to cold approach, do night game, clubs, etc.
And what have I learned so far?
Most of the advice out there is just garbage. It doesn’t work. I have done over 200 cold approaches and most of them never worked. It was a huge time waster for me.
Tinder barely works, and the girls I match with, I’m just not that attracted to them. I’m not being a misogynist, just stating the facts here. We all have our preferences. And the girls I would love to match with, I’m just not matching with them.
So Do I Mean I Wasted $7,000?
Absolutely not. I learned so much from that.
The most important thing I learned was to do the opposite of what most of these “dating gurus” teach. If they tell you to wear fancy shoes, get an iPhone, an expensive watch, and repeat pickup lines. Do the opposite of that.
Wear normal clothes that fit well, only get an iPhone if you can afford one, you don’t have to have a Rolex. And just say whatever comes to your mind when you approach a girl. And if your mind goes blank, just say that you are nervous about approaching her and your mind just went blank.
Trust me. Most girls love being approached and if you are being honest about being nervous, they appreciate that.
My point is that most of these courses just either repackage someone else’s products or content, or just teach something that just does not work in real-life.
What If You Are Just Another Guy Trying to Promote A Dating Product?
We all have to pay the bills right?
But here’s the thing, I don’t need to sacrifice your time and hard earned money to pay my bills.
I know how frustrating it can be when you aren’t dating the girls you would like to date. When they don’t respond to your messages, etc.
But here’s the thing – I also don’t want you to waste your money on the wrong programs. I want you to learn from my mistakes so you don’t have to waste your $7,000 trying out the same things I did.
That’s my goal here. I want you to achieve the dating life of your dreams as soon as possible without having to spend thousands of dollars on it. And trust me, you don’t have to.
All the products that I review on this website are bought with my own money and without letting the owner of the product know that I will be writing a review about it.
Most people worry that these big dating companies might be sponsoring some of these websites to review their dating products and write something positive about them. Not me.
I have a day job that pays very well. I can afford to pay for these dating products and see what they are all about. And if I find one that genuinely does provide value and improves my life, I will let you know about it. Heck, I will even try to get you guys a discount for it.
But it doesn’t end there.
I don’t want to be just another sell out on the internet. I want to make sure that we have options. I’ll always make sure that I list the best, the second best and the third best resources that you can check out.
That also includes free resources. In fact, I will mostly focus on what you can learn for free so you are spending as little money on this as possible.
Just Being Upfront
Look, most websites out there will BS their audience about what they are looking to achieve. I want to make sure that I am upfront with you guys about what I want to provide so you know exactly what you are in for.
I want to make sure that I’m calling out all the grifters, the scammers, the guys that don’t deliver the promised results. That way, the majority of the people that are like you and me, don’t fall prey to their marketing. Because trust me, these guys have HUGE marketing budgets. They can run those funnels forever.
But if there is no one telling the truth and exposing their products, then the majority of the people will just keep wasting their money.
Think of this website as a portal of truth in the dating industry. I will publish the most honest, no-filter, no-BS, genuine dating product reviews and then let you decide if you want to buy it or not.
If that sounds like a good deal to you, head over to the Contact Me page and let me know which dating product you would like me to review.
What I Will Not Review Or Partially Review
I will not be reviewing those $5,000 or $10,000 immersion programs because I’m not a millionaire. And I also don’t have the time to fly out to the coaches and try out those programs myself. However, I will partially review them and I will make sure that I am doing in-depth research about what the people that went through those programs are saying about it.
Also, in every review I will leave links to all the sources from which I gathered all my info. So you can go through those yourself and verify that there is no bias on my part. In most cases though, I will be including screenshots of my own showing that I bought the programs and what you will get inside.
